Welcoming the New Year

Haven't been posting on here because I've been enjoying my 3 weeks of winter break. I was not able to do some things planned pre-break, but I really did enjoy my short vacation. I caught up with many friends and made new ones along the way. Glad to have a grand holiday season this year! Family all came together from far places. Stress level has decreased and many blessings have been present. But sadly, we're back to school tomorrow.

Welcoming the New Year is not as grand for me anymore. The whole "new year, new me" saying does not go for me. I don't believe there has to be a new year to be a new person. Along the way, I have learned that one must want and be open to change to make a change. It does not have to be a new year to become a new person because we all have those experiences that give us a slap in the face to change. Or, it's just a reflection period and telling yourself it's time to start working on a better individual you can become. When it came to the famous New Year's Resolution, I never really followed through with it. But if I had to make one now it would be:

• Never stop walking with The Lord
• Learn to accept whatever comes your way

My resolutions used to be:

• Eat healthy and exercise 
• Keep your room clean
• Stop cursing
• …& so on

Growing up I learned that life is so much more than just those simple resolutions above. I agree that I really should start eating healthier and start working out more consistently, but what about reaching out to the less fortunate? Being a better me? Start inviting more friends to church or to bible studies? I need to learn to become more Christ-like and becoming more patient and forgiving with those around me because I tend to lose my temper easily.

But honestly, 2014 alone taught me so many things:

• God never makes mistakes. There is a purpose to everything! Keep your faith and trust onto Him and he will provide. 
• Your group of friends will shrink and these people will have their own set of friends, but at the end of the day, you will always be there for one another no matter what.
• A good relationship with family is key.
• You will lose friends but you will make new ones no matter what. 
• Time alone is crucial. Use this time to reflect on your actions and to learn more about yourself and the God given tools that are handed to you. 
• Be a blessing to others. 
• It is okay to open your heart again, but you have to remember that you will be heartbroken every here and there.
• Fight for what you believe in and fight for someone you care about. 
• Death is inevitable but it is important to always cherish your time for your loved ones. Take every opportunity to be with them and make the most with the time you have together.
• Surround yourself with friends who help you grow and improve--not friends who will bring you down.
• School is a pain in the butt but you can't give up now. 
• Love everyone, as well as your enemies. 
• Family time is important.
• Not everyone will like you, but that's okay. 
• Do not push away those who truly care about you and who want to help. 
• Walking with God makes living a whole lot better even though there are many tribulations that come our way. 
• Give people time alone before you make any quick decisions that may taint a friendship. 
• Some of the best things in life do not come to you easily. 
• Keep "doing you" and God will provide. 
• Don't listen to what people say when they try to bring you down and step on your dreams!!!
• Concerts are super fun to attend and you make great memories. 

When you take the time to reflect on the journey of your life, you see that everything is one big blessing. You must always thank The Lord above for all he is doing in your life. Sometimes we hit rock bottom and don't know how to get out of the deep hole we fall into, but honestly prayer is important--Prayer and growing a strong relationship with Him above. We may not hear Him speak but through us He is making a way. I'm sure we all believe that, "actions speak louder than words," so take a step back and look at all the things He has done in your life. How can you not feel blessed? 

May you all have a great year! 

Charlene